Monday, July 8, 2013

The List

     We have entered birth-month. Seeing how my birthday is my favorite holiday I decided a couple of years ago to create what I call "birth-month." The whole month of July is celebrated as my birthday. 

Selfish, yes. Awesome, double yes. 

    I've been trying to think of what to do this year. The big 2-2 not that exciting of a birthday except for the T-Swift song, Twenty-Two. Plus, every year my birthdays get better and better so this year I'm thinking about taking a  hiatus and doing something low key. Road trip perhaps?  

    Anyhow, I am determined either way to make this birth-month a great one. 

    Moving on. Summer is half over and I've had enough time to reflect on my single-ness. I have an almost complete list of what I'm looking for in what I like to call a "dating partner." Boyfriend is too committal of a word. Every girl does this. We have this idea in our head of the boy we want to be in our lives. It's a load of crap. Thanks to movies and novels we have an unrealistic idea of how the whole system works. 

     My entire life I've had a list of turn offs. Jewelry, tennis shoes with jeans, living with the parents, 6 year age difference, etc... BUT as you get older your list changes. You start really thinking about a potential partner. 

     Such as, must like to dance, have a job, enjoy going out, want to travel, etc... Things that grown ups care about. 

So ladies, think about what you want make a list and stick to it. Don't be a bitch about it. Have some leeway, but I promise life will be better when you have a clear idea what you want. 

                                                Stay Sassy- A. 

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